DEAR ABBY: i recently found out my better half of 18 years happens to be planning to “hook-up” websites. He claims he was simply taking a look at the images, but I do not think him. I’ve caught him cheating twice into the past, therefore it is difficult to trust him.
My issue is, he understands i can not keep him because i’ve no job, no abilities, no money — absolutely nothing. We went right from my moms and dads’ home to managing him after our wedding. We now have six young ones and something in route. He can continue steadily to head to these web sites I am stuck because he knows. exactly What do I need to do? — SOON-TO-BE MOM OF SEVEN
DEAR SOON-TO-BE MOM OF SEVEN: the very first thing you have to do is see your physician and become checked for STDs. If you’re well, thank your greater power. If you’ren’t, get therapy, get well and speak with legal counsel. Your circumstances might never be because hopeless as you would imagine.
Maybe you have any family members or friends it is possible to stick to once you leave, improve your life and be self-supporting? It could require task training and time, but please think over it.
I doubt your husband need enough time for philandering if he’s got six young ones to deal with by himself along with their task. I also doubt that few, if any, ladies he may be setting up with would welcome becoming the instant mom of six. Continue reading “DEAR ABBY: guy with history of cheating is caught on ’Hook-up’ sites”